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Cavatina's avatar

Recently I was at my local pool, in the changing room with not only other women but also with a group of schoolgirls (maybe 9 years old) as well. I was horrified by the thought of a male, however he identifies, being in there as well. The campaign for single-sex facillities needs to focus on the safety, privacy and dignity of girls as well as women.

The doors to the changing rooms at this pool say Female and Male, perhaps less ambiguous/ open to interpretation (for some) than Women and Men/ Ladies and Gents.

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Fascinating. Good read.

There’s a wonderful irony embedded in this. A man imitating women feels very uncomfortable using men’s facilities because it exposes his mimicry.

He is also likely to feel quite uncomfortable using an “all sex” bathroom if there are women’s bathrooms, because it can also expose his mimicry.

By contrast, men and women who aren’t actively mimicking the opposite sex couldn’t care less if they use an “all sex” facility as long as it is one person at a time (respecting the information in the post) even if there are male or female facilities.

Look at how many times an “open to all” sports category has been made with zero sex mimics participating.

There’s a reason.

Going to the bathroom isn’t an act of elimination for a sex mimic, it’s also an act of positive sex fantasy fulfillment.

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